As a Mom, I can say that kids take a lot of our time and energy and can be very hard for us sometimes. Of course, it is such a joy to be with your kids and being able to do what you need to do for them, but you can't forget the person that helped you create those beautiful little humans. One thing that helped me was to make sure that my spouse felt and became first in our marriage before my kids, and this concept can be hard for a lot of Moms.